“As to all opinions which do not strike at the root of Christianity, we think and let think.” ~ John Wesley
What is at the root of your faith? For John Wesley, it was Christianity. He put great emphasis on his faith in Christianity and what scholars would deem the quadrilateral. The quadrilateral comprises four parts: Scripture being the foundation, reason, tradition, and experience following close behind, each carrying great importance in the decision-making process for both the individual and the church. He had many critics pushing back on his beliefs and interpretation of Scripture.
John Wesley would coin phrases like “we think and let think” and “we can agree to disagree” in response to his fellow theologians and critics. Most people have used the latter quote themselves more than once, and now you know where this phrase comes from the next time you use it.
How do you deal with people who don’t think the same way you do? Do you argue lovingly, or do you become a viper? Must you get your point across and win the debate at all costs, or do you settle for the attitude of “we think and let think?”
In the 21st century, we live in an age where disagreement is not accepted. The “us vs. them” mentality has become firmly seeded in our culture. If someone or some group doesn’t share the same beliefs, values, or mission in life, we quickly label them idiots, enemies and often dehumanize them altogether. It’s scary, dangerous, and pathetic that humans can’t experience life together without becoming divided and deadset on having things their way.
In recovery circles, love and tolerance are the codes necessary to live sober, happy, joyous, and free in the world. Allowing others to be who they choose to be, believe what they choose to think, and live the way they choose to live is the keystone for living life on life’s terms and getting along in the world. John Wesley knew he must get along with others, including his critics, but how? He did so by adopting an attitude of love and tolerance and encouraging his followers to do the same. There is great wisdom available from the teaching and example of John Wesley, along with those from the recovery community.
God of love and tolerance. Thank you for the experience, strength, and hope from Your faithful Saint, John Wesley. Please help me gain the same acceptance for those who don’t think, believe, or live the same way I do. Please grant me the humility, willingness, and courage it takes to love everyone, including my critics & enemies. In Your Spirit and Name, I pray these things. May Your will not mine always materialize, now and forever. Amen.
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